How to find a perfect partner - A modern-day relationship guide to have a long-lasting relationship
Are you tired of being single or being in futile relationships that end before your mobile plan expires? If it’s so, then this article is for you, as we’re going to look at the fundamentals of a relationship. And, if you’re in a relationship where you have to be conscious all the time, then what’s the point of being in that relationship? You need to immediately get out of it. In a relationship, you should feel comfortable with your partner, so that you can share every moment of your life with them.
Are you tired of being single or being in futile relationships that end before your mobile plan expires? If it’s so, then this article is for you, as we’re going to look at the fundamentals of a relationship. And, if you’re in a relationship where you have to be conscious all the time, then what’s the point of being in that relationship? You need to immediately get out of it. In a relationship, you should feel comfortable with your partner, so that you can share every moment of your life with them.
About relationships?
First, we need to understand that a relationship doesn’t necessarily mean having the most powerful, good-looking, or successful partner. It means having a person who can calm your agitated mind when he or she hugs you and who doesn’t come between you and your primary goals.
Look deep into your past relationships
If you were in relationships before, then it becomes slightly easy for you to find a perfect partner who can be with you in a relationship for at least a year. You need to thoroughly understand your past relationships and see with whom you were the most comfortable and you spent the longest time. Now, can you imagine yourself in a relationship with that person? If your answer is yes, then you should seek a partner who resembles, not physically, that person. And, if your answer is no, then look for the things that made you be with that person. Find those things in people around you.
If you weren’t in a relationship before, then it becomes slightly tough for you to find a partner. After reading the previous sentence, don’t get disheartened. The procedure is the same as mentioned above. You need to apply the same technique with the people that you’ve met thus far. Think about the people with whom you were the most comfortable and you can have a romantic relationship. Now, take out their qualities and match with the people around you. Who matches perfectly, approach that person.
Expectations Vs. compatibility We all have high expectations of getting a dream partner. Some have unrealistic expectations.
“Expectations are premeditated resentment” – Unknown
If you meet a person who matches your expectations, you don’t need to be going to be comfortable with him or her. The person, fulfilling your expectations, can make you feel overwhelmed, as a result, you may never be able to be yourself. And, there’s no surety that the dream partner is going to be compatible with you.
You decide what you want to choose. Compatibility or Expectations
Where to find a partner?
Clubs and events It requires real courage and confidence to ask a stranger to go on a date. In clubs and events, you’ll see many people. Talking to strangers will boost your confidence and who knows that you may find your partner drinking OJ. Workplace or college If you work for a company or study in college, then there is a possibility of you having a crush on someone. As, you spend most of the time there, so it becomes natural to fall for someone. Be practical. If you’ve strength enough to talk that person, then only think about that person; otherwise, you’re just wasting your time. Legend says that you should never date a person who works or studies with you. Social Media Having a plethora of networking platforms like Facebook, Instagram, Snapchat, and so on, we can check out several people within a short period. Choose the account of the person whom you think is tailor-made for you. Invest your time, do the necessary investigation, and then hit them up with a crispy and short message. You’re definitely going to get a reply. Your account represents you, so you have to make your account 100 percent real. For instance, if a person sees your account, then he or she can easily picture you. “Be yourself because an original is always worth more than a copy.” Suzy Kassem. However, you need to invest a lot of time while looking for a partner, as the competition is very high here so you need to show your bright side. Upload an amazing profile picture and post photos, thoughts or memes daily. I must say that this is quite better and convenient than dating apps, as the chances of getting a loyal partner here is more. Tip: Make your Instagram account awesome to get instant DMs. Dating apps Unlike social media, here you have to upload limited photos, and you have to write a bio so that people seeing your profile can get a brief idea of your personality. Majority of profiles are of recently broken-up people, gold-diggers, and fuck-boys. So, instead of spending enormous time on dating apps, go traditional and offline mode. As the chances of meeting your next partner is more when your eyes aren’t on your phone. Still, you can try your luck here, and if you’re ready to cough up to get a premium membership, then do it fast. You can fast the process of getting a partner. Friends’ parties Friends throw parties now and then, and they call their other friends, whom you don’t know, also. If you liked someone at your friend’s party, then it’ll be easy for you to approach, as your friend can easily introduce you to him or her. This should be kept as a last resort, as it involves a lot of people and it’s an easy way to get a partner. And, easy things have complex anatomy. So, you need to find a partner on your own first. If nothing works, then this is the best option for you. Can two friends be in a relationship? Are you serious? Never be in a relationship with your friend. Things can get ugly between you and your friend. Don’t even think about it.
Why is a relationship necessary? Being a small part of this vast society, we have to play a multitude of roles throughout the day. Only in a relationship, you can be yourself the most. You can share your fears and show your flaws without being judged. Your partner will not only understand you but also help you in becoming a better version.
In the end Both, being in a relationship or being single, are merely the parts of life that make you feel good and bad. You just need to be satisfied whatever phase you’re in. Don’t try to rush things, as your chances to make mistakes high when you do things fast to get quick results. Moreover, this shows your desperation. The process to find a partner should be slow and smooth.
Best of luck ☺
Expectations Vs. compatibility We all have high expectations of getting a dream partner. Some have unrealistic expectations.
“Expectations are premeditated resentment” – Unknown
If you meet a person who matches your expectations, you don’t need to be going to be comfortable with him or her. The person, fulfilling your expectations, can make you feel overwhelmed, as a result, you may never be able to be yourself. And, there’s no surety that the dream partner is going to be compatible with you.
You decide what you want to choose. Compatibility or Expectations
Where to find a partner?
Clubs and events It requires real courage and confidence to ask a stranger to go on a date. In clubs and events, you’ll see many people. Talking to strangers will boost your confidence and who knows that you may find your partner drinking OJ. Workplace or college If you work for a company or study in college, then there is a possibility of you having a crush on someone. As, you spend most of the time there, so it becomes natural to fall for someone. Be practical. If you’ve strength enough to talk that person, then only think about that person; otherwise, you’re just wasting your time. Legend says that you should never date a person who works or studies with you. Social Media Having a plethora of networking platforms like Facebook, Instagram, Snapchat, and so on, we can check out several people within a short period. Choose the account of the person whom you think is tailor-made for you. Invest your time, do the necessary investigation, and then hit them up with a crispy and short message. You’re definitely going to get a reply. Your account represents you, so you have to make your account 100 percent real. For instance, if a person sees your account, then he or she can easily picture you. “Be yourself because an original is always worth more than a copy.” Suzy Kassem. However, you need to invest a lot of time while looking for a partner, as the competition is very high here so you need to show your bright side. Upload an amazing profile picture and post photos, thoughts or memes daily. I must say that this is quite better and convenient than dating apps, as the chances of getting a loyal partner here is more. Tip: Make your Instagram account awesome to get instant DMs. Dating apps Unlike social media, here you have to upload limited photos, and you have to write a bio so that people seeing your profile can get a brief idea of your personality. Majority of profiles are of recently broken-up people, gold-diggers, and fuck-boys. So, instead of spending enormous time on dating apps, go traditional and offline mode. As the chances of meeting your next partner is more when your eyes aren’t on your phone. Still, you can try your luck here, and if you’re ready to cough up to get a premium membership, then do it fast. You can fast the process of getting a partner. Friends’ parties Friends throw parties now and then, and they call their other friends, whom you don’t know, also. If you liked someone at your friend’s party, then it’ll be easy for you to approach, as your friend can easily introduce you to him or her. This should be kept as a last resort, as it involves a lot of people and it’s an easy way to get a partner. And, easy things have complex anatomy. So, you need to find a partner on your own first. If nothing works, then this is the best option for you. Can two friends be in a relationship? Are you serious? Never be in a relationship with your friend. Things can get ugly between you and your friend. Don’t even think about it.
Why is a relationship necessary? Being a small part of this vast society, we have to play a multitude of roles throughout the day. Only in a relationship, you can be yourself the most. You can share your fears and show your flaws without being judged. Your partner will not only understand you but also help you in becoming a better version.
In the end Both, being in a relationship or being single, are merely the parts of life that make you feel good and bad. You just need to be satisfied whatever phase you’re in. Don’t try to rush things, as your chances to make mistakes high when you do things fast to get quick results. Moreover, this shows your desperation. The process to find a partner should be slow and smooth.
Best of luck ☺
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